Emily Ratajkowski has hit out at men for ‘thinking with their d**ks’ after she was caught snogging Harry Styles during a trip to Tokyo.
The model, 31, and the pop star, 26, made headlines after engaging in a steamy make-out session over the weekend on the streets of the Japanese capital.
Since the sighting, Emily has given an update on her post-divorce dating life and revealed that she doesn’t see settling down in her future.
The Gone Girl actress blasted men for thinking with their genitalia when it comes to romantic relationships and revealed plans to raise a second child alone.
Emily’s insights came during a new subscription-only question and answer with her fans, where she hinted she doesn’t see a long-term future with Harry – saying she is planning to freeze her eggs and give Sylvester a sibling when she is in her late 30s.
Don’t hold back! Emily Ratajkowski has hit out at men for ‘thinking with their d**ks’ after she was caught snogging Harry Styles during a trip to Tokyo
And when a fan asked: ‘Is it cool to raise a baby without the father?’, Emily launched into a rant about men being dopey and sex-obsessed.
She replied: ‘I thought about this a lot – a lot of my friends have gotten their eggs frozen just to buy themselves some more time, do the careers they want, meet the potential partner they want, but also I know a lot of people had IVF because they weren’t able to get pregnant naturally.
‘And, I’m 31, and it was really crazy – my last visit with a gaeno, and she was like, ‘Ok, well in about two or three years we’ll be talking about your eggs, you know, being frozen.’ And it rally shocked me – not that I don’t think that’s reasonable, I was just like, ‘Holy s**t, I have to be thinking about that?’
‘My mum naturally got pregnant with me at 38 so it never crossed my mind that part of it.
‘I think I definitely would like to have more children – I really love being a mom. I’m not sure I’m going to find somebody that I want to raise a child with. A friend of mine – a very famous friend with many sisters, when I told her I was getting divorced, was like, ‘Don’t worry, like, guys are not deterred by you having a child.’
Pucker up! The model, 31, and the pop star, 26, made headlines after engaging in a steamy make-out session over the weekend on the streets of the Japanese capital (pictured)
‘And guess what? She was right. I will say there are men who are more respectful of my family, which is me and Sly, and our relationship, and more cognisant of it than others. And that makes a huge difference for me.
‘Like if you are appreciative of my life as a mother and my time with Sly and how he is Number 1, like, you win so many points.
‘But in general, it’s not like guys are like, ‘Oh my God, I don’t wanna be a stepdad’ – that’s too much pressure.
‘I’m so sorry to say this – men think with their d**ks. And they’re just not that advanced.
‘Like a woman would be like, “I don’t even know if I can go on a first date with this guy – he has two kids.”
‘Guys are just not there. So they’ll be in love with you and they’ll be like, ‘Oh s**t, she has two kids – guess I’m a stepdad.’
Union end: Emily filed for divorce from her husband of four years, Sebastian Bear-McClard (seen in 2020), two months after they split over allegations that he had cheated
‘I’m not saying like that’s good, I’m just saying don’t worry about that – that shouldn’t be a deciding factor in whether you have a child or not on your own, because they’re just not thinking like that.
‘I want to be careful about how I say this because I think that having two people raise a child can be really important. I think that, you know, having a father is important, but I also just want to say that I know quite a few women who have done it on their own and they’ve done incredible jobs and they are fantastic mothers and they have wonderful kids, and I personally have really liked parenting on my own.
‘So I personally wouldn’t be afraid of getting pregnant and giving birth as a single woman.
‘That doesn’t mean I’m saying that’s the best way to do it or the only way to do it but I very much see that for my future – deciding to do IVF in my late-30s to give Sly a sibling.
‘I think marriage is really hard, partnership is really hard and when you bring kids into the mix it’s 1,000 times more difficult, so in some ways it (being a single mum) can streamline it a bit.
‘But it also means there is no time off. There’s no shifts – there’s no, “Give mummy and daddy a break,” so it’s a lot of work. But it definitely can be done and I think it can definitely be a beautiful thing.
‘We went from flirting to attachment styles, to choosing to do IVF and do parenting solo.’
She added it is also extremely difficult to introduce a man into her life as a single mum, and added some guys are more attentive to it than others.
When a fan asked Emily to share her feelings on men wanting women to be ‘their caretakers’, she blasted: ‘I hear you – I don’t want to have to do any labour for anyone, or do any work for anyone I’m not willing to.
‘That being said, I like it when men in particular ask me what I’m into… because I am so used to dudes thinking they are an arsenal of knowledge and there’s nothing more for them to learn. I kind of like that if they’re serious about it, but a lot of the time they’re not.
‘I dated a guy for a minute, whose name will not be disclosed, who never made it through my book – through my own damn book.
‘He got halfway, and he was like, ‘It’s really good.’ He kept saying he was a slow reader, but I was also like, ‘Huh, ok – are you just not that interested in me?’
‘And by the way, it’s really weird to have somebody reading your book, like the most personal things about you when you are going out with them.
Baby number two: Emily revealed she currently plans to have another baby alone
‘I’ve had a couple of dudes who have asked for recommendations, and I’ve given them, and then don’t actually follow up, so it’s just this empty thing, and I definitely don’t like that.
‘But I think in general I appreciate when men are asking me what I’m interested in, and want to listen to the music I like, and want to know what I’m into and thinking about and enjoying because a lot of I feel like what I am – your identity can really be reflected in your taste.
‘And a lot of the time, short stories and essays that I love are core to who I am and I feel like I’ve learned a lot about other people based on their interpretation of writing. I’ve been really impressed and really disappointed when I’ve sent them a bit of writing and then I’m like, ‘Oh, s**t, that’s how you see the world? Damn it.’
‘I want to go and see movies with you and see what you think.
‘But I’m never mad at someone expressing an interest in the things I’m interested in.’
Emily’s comments come amid claims she is trying to patch up her friendship with Harry’s ex Olivia Wilde, 39, who split from the singer last year.
Insider’s claim that their passionate clinch by have cost Emily her friendship with Olivia, who was reportedly left devastated by her break-up with Harry.
A source Page Six that the My Body author is ‘begging [Wilde] for forgiveness. This is a betrayal.’
Meanwhile, Olivia, who dated for nearly two years before calling it quits in November 2022, ‘is staying far away from this and taking the high road.’
End of the road: Harry and Olivia went their separate ways after they found they had ‘different priorities that are keeping them apart’ (seen above together in March 2022)
While it is unclear how close Emily and the Don’t Worry Darling director are, they were previously filmed dancing at Harry’s Paris concert together and have publicly sang each other’s praises over the years.
Emily even said she felt very protective’ of Olivia, whose latest film was nearly overshadowed by allegations of on-set feuds and her relationship with its leading man [Harry].
While the video came as a shock to many, The Sun reported that the couple have been getting to know each other for a while now.
Speaking to the publication, a source said: ‘Harry and Emily are enjoying getting to know each other.
‘Getting filmed kissing in Tokyo and then that footage being shared with the world wasn’t what either of them expected – but they aren’t hiding anything.
‘Harry and Emily have been getting to know each other for some time now. They spent some time together out of the public eye this year and are just enjoying each other’s company when they can while Harry is on tour.’
Harry is currently performing in Japan as part of his aptly named Love On Tour series of worldwide gigs.
It was reported at the end of last month that Harry had moved on from Olivia with someone else, although the mystery lady was not identified.
A source told the Mirror at the time: ‘Harry is seeing someone. He’s going to great lengths to keep her identity quiet after the circus surrounding his relationship with Olivia.
‘But his close circles all know about the romance. Though it’s early days, things seem to be going well.’
Emily had in recent months been linked to serial dater Pete Davidson. She filed for divorce from her film producer ex-husband Sebastian Bear-McClard in September.
The married couple first split in July amid accusations that 42-year-old Sebastian was a ‘serial cheater’.
Meanwhile, Harry and Olivia went their separate ways after they found they had ‘different priorities that are keeping them apart’.
Olivia was last seen supporting Harry when she attended his November 15 concert at LA’s Kia Forum, where she was accompanied by her two children.
In November, it was claimed that Olivia was ‘disappointed’ that her relationship with Harry Styles did not work out.